Divorce update and weightier issues

Well, if all goes as planned, my divorce certificate should be in my hands by May 31st at the latest. Due to no response from John(YEA!!!) the final papers were filed yesterday; it takes approximately 2 weeks for a judge to sign off on them, then 2-3 weeks from then to receive the final order. It's been a loooong, drawn out process, but it's finally coming to a close, and I can put it all behind me. I will never forget, of course, but I can learn from it, and never make the same mistakes I did then. Something serious happened with me this week as well(nothing life threatening, but if left, could become so), and I have to re-evaluate my health and being overweight. It is all up to me, and if I can't do it...no one can. I have so much to be healthy for, my children, my friends, family, and more importantly, me. Stress causes me to gain weight, and break out in my face and this last couple weeks has been horrendous. I was almost too embarrassed to go anywhere, but I couldn't hide either, so now I am taking steps to change my outlook on all of it. Living on my own will make a HUGE difference because I won't have to fight the smells and temptations lying around from other members of the family, and I will have the final choice as to what I buy for me and my kids. They eat waaaay better than I do, I think I should take a tip from them! I was considering Herbal Magic; they have a 100% guaranteed weight loss program, but you have to be wealthy to even join! I'm sure these things work, but you fork out a lot of money to do something you can do on your own!

Emma has aked me to post a Happy Birthday to her best friend Cassidy Janai Eileen Balla! She is 8 years old today!