Desperately Seeking Someone...
It's a good thing I am such a patient person...NOT! But I can take things in stride and having gone through what I have experienced I have to learn to just slow down and after having my rush of whatever emotion I feel at the time, I can accept that things just well, happen. Ok, now to explain myself a little better. I received a call from my lawyer today who informed me that they had tried for 3 days last week, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday to serve the divorce papers on John, and found out only Friday that he no longer lives there. Weird, considering I had received a card from him only 3 weeks before, the return address being that one. The current occupant gave them an address he had left asking that any correspondence be forwarded to him there: guess what? The address belonged to a family that had never even heard of him...??? I called my mother in law and she told me he was living with his father as he was looking for yet another job(there goes my child support for February) but would not be there long either, so as things stand right now, my lawyer id desperately trying to get the servers to get those papers to him before this Friday just in case he moves again. The whole situation is definitely not funny, but I can see the humor in it...after a couple hours...but God knows and we'll just let Him take care of it!
posted by Amy St. Pierre @ 2:44 PM
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Oh brother... what a loser... That was my challenge too. Fortunately I had been talking about a divorce enough that by the time I got Mitch served he was wanting to be served and agreed to meet with the process server. Otherwise there's no way on the face of God's earth that I ever could have had him served! Praying for you, hun.
Sigh...sad yes, but more so because John has known about the divorce for a long time now, but he has deluded himself that I will continue to be his wife, even after everything that has passed. He insists he loves me, but now it is a matter of convincing himself, not me. I almost feel sorry for people like that...
Oh Amy, what a pain! I wish I could go over there and shake him.
Yea, I've wanted to do that for 10 years now, but I guarantee it wouldn't work, unfortunately. Prayer is the only thing I can think of, and even then if he has no desire to see his wrong, God will not force him to change. Bummer, huh?
God will reign!
so did they find him yet?
A s far as I know, yes. He is living with his dad right now, so I am assuming they served him there. I'll find out sometime this week.
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