Visit from Grandma!
My children's grandma is coming in to Calgary on the 3rd of October for I believe 15 days. She tries her best and has pretty much succeeded in coming at least once a year to see them as well as her other granddaughter Genevieve. Edna Miller has 10 grandchildren, 3 of whom are here in Calgary. The other 7 are with her in Ontario which is lovely for grandparents to have the majority of their grandchildren so close. It is a special time for her though when she comes here as she only sees my two children the once a year she comes. Genevieve she sees a couple times as her parents visit Ontario once a year as well. I have to say I am glad she puts the effort into seeing them unlike their father who has ceased any communication with them at all in months. I realize that members of my soon to be ex-husband's family read this so please don't be offended by what I say. Actions always speak louder than words, and by not communication he has shown loud and clear how he takes the whole father issue. I am relieved, yes, and more happy now than we were in contact as it takes the pressure off my children as to what to say to someone they do not know. My daughter showed my son a picture of their father only a few weeks ago and asked him if he knew who it was. Logan said no, then said, whoever he is, he's sure ugly! Well, needless to say he was corrected on saying something nasty about anyone, but it saddened me to see he had no idea who his own father even was. God has done wondrous things for us though and I refuse to llok back and wish things had been different anymore. We are moving forward, putting the past full of tragic memories behind us, and forging a better life than we could ever have expected. Of course with God any life is made better!!! So to end this, I hope my children have a wonderful time getting to know their grandmother better, and spending time with their cousin whom they love to bits!!!

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